There is a comfort in rituals, and rituals provide a framework for stability when you are trying to find answers.Deborah Norville

Looking for something extra to help you manifest a specific goal in your life? Well rituals (if done properly and you truly believe in a positive outcome) are exactly what you need. Whether it be calling in love or cleansing your spirit, the right ritual, at the right time, with the right intentions can be a great aid in obtaining exactly which you desire. We’ve compiled a few of our favorite rituals here and know that they will help bring you closer to happiness. True believers only please.

***Disclaimer*** We at Divine Synchronicities are fully cognizant and respectful of the powers of white and black magic, however none of our rituals fall in the realm of black magic. We believe in free will and the simple fact that what is meant for you will never pass you by. If you are attempting to use these to validate your ego, or call in something that is simply not meant for you, then these are not the rituals for you and might not be the site for you. Divine Synchronicities is about empowerment, freedom and self-love, not about forcing what is not meant to be.

Moon Rituals

Candle Spell

Best time to perform the ritual:  Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

 Items required:

1X 3’’ inch candle (the color depends on the intention that you are trying to set; see below)

  • Red: lust, sex, passion, spice
  • Blue: harmony, healing, serenity
  • Black: protection, abolition
  • Purple: power, self-confidence
  • Pink: self-love, compassion, longevity

Rose Oil

Ritual:

Start by anointing the candle with rose oil.

Close your eyes and state your intention aloud. Then, light the candle.

After lighting it, repeat out loud “Love is abundant. Feel that love; embrace it as though it were the most powerful and nurturing love in existence. That love belongs to you.”

Repeat it until you believe it with all your heart.

Let the candle burn right through then close your eyes and thank the universe for receiving your intention.

New Beginning Ritual Bath

Best time to perform the ritual:  Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 1X packet of cascarilla
  • 1X packet of blue dye
  • 1X bottle of rose cologne

Ritual:

Start by running a warm bath. Add in the cascarilla and crumble up the blue dye and sprinkle it in the water. Pour in some of the rose cologne (it doesn’t need to be the entire bottle) then get into the water. Close your eyes, take a couple of deep breaths, then meditate on that which you would like to release and what you are trying to call in. When you are finished, thank the universe for hearing your request and for the incoming blessings. When you are ready to get out, rinse off, then after you get out, pat some of the Rose Cologne all over your body to solidify this new beginning.

Cleansing Bath

Best time to perform the ritual:  Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 1X gallon of whole milk
  • 1X bottle of 1800 Cologne
  • 1X bottle of Florida Water

(You can also add in bath salts and bubble bath to make it more soothing)

Ritual:

Start by running a warm bath. Pour in the gallon of whole milk, some of the 1800 Cologne (it doesn’t need to be the entire bottle), some of the Florida Water (it doesn’t need to be the entire bottle), then get into the water. Close your eyes, take a couple of deep breaths, then meditate on that which you would like to release, and what changes that you would like to make. When you are finished, thank the universe for hearing your request and starting this healing. When you are ready to get out, rinse off, then after you get out, pat some of the Florida Water all over your body to complete the cleansing.

Full Moon Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: During a full moon

Items required:

  • 1X piece of sage
  • 1X piece of palo santo
  • 1X bottle of Florida Water
  • 1X bubble bath
  • 1X bath salts
  • 1X glass jar

 Ritual:

Start by cleaning and then cleansing your space with sage. After that light some Palo to bring in some good energy and spray Florida Water all around your space. Move your body; sing, dance, just go with whatever spiritual flow that you are inclined to. Then draw a warm bath. Add in the bubble bath, bath salts and Florida Water, then get in when you are ready. Close your eyes, take a couple of deep breaths and get into a deep meditation. Looking to manifest wealth or love? Think deep and precise about that which you desire and affirm it with your whole heart. Surrender to the universe and allow the blessings to come in. When you are ready, rinse off then pat some of the Florida Water all over your body to complete the meditation. Afterwards

Fill up a jar with water and close it. Hold it to your heart and set your intention. Once the water has been programmed, place it on the windowsill so that it can harness the energies of the full moon. Also place all your crystals on the windowsill to recharge in the energies of the full moon.

Next is journal. Write everything that you are trying to manifest and all your intentions. Be specific and precise with what you want. When you are done you can place the journal on the sill as well. Lastly if you have an altar, light candles, and set offerings for your ancestors and orishas. Say a quick prayer stating your appreciation and thanking them. After completing this step, thank the universe for all blessings both present and future. You can leave all the items out an additional night as the moon energies are still strong, but whenever you are ready, reprogram all your crystals and set your moon water away for when you are ready to drink it. Your ritual is then complete.

New Moon Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: During a new moon

Items required:

  • 1X piece of sage
  • 1X piece of palo santo
  • 1X bottle of Florida Water
  • 1X bottle of Rose Cologne
  • 1X bubble bath
  • 1X bath salts
  • 1X fireproof jar
  • Paper and pen

Ritual:

Start by cleaning and then cleansing your space with sage. After that light some Palo to bring in some good energy and spray Florida Water all around your space. Move your body; sing, dance, just go with whatever spiritual flow that you are inclined to. Then draw a warm bath. Add in the bubble bath, bath salts and Rose Cologne then get in when you are ready. Close your eyes, take a couple of deep breaths and get into a deep meditation. Focus on what you are trying to change. Any bad habits, a bad mindset that you want to shed, or healing that you truly need; focus on it with all your heart. When you are ready, rinse off then pat some of the Rose Cologne all over your body to complete the meditation. Next is journal. Write everything that you are trying to shed and set all your intentions. Be specific and precise with what you request. Next, write on a piece of paper three things that you want to change or shed. Close your eyes, place it on your heart and ask the Universe to grant you the strength to change, heal, and become better. Set the paper on fire and watch as your intentions are set. Lastly if you have an altar, light candles, and set offerings for your ancestors and orishas. Say a quick prayer stating your appreciation and thanking them. After completing this step, thank the universe for all blessings both present and future. Your ritual is then complete.

Love Rituals and Spells

Full Moon Love Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: During a full moon

Items required:

  • 1X small jar
  • Honey
  • 2X ounces of your favorite alcohol (e.g. vodka, rum, tequila, wine)
  • Rose petals with thorns to represent love with healthy boundaries
  • Herbs that correspond with love (e.g. blue lotus, lavender, cinnamon)
  • 1X small piece of rose quartz
  • 1X large piece or rose quartz
  • A piece of paper and a pen
  • 1X tealight candle
  • Matches

 Ritual:

Add about 2-3 teaspoons of honey and your alcohol of choice to a jar, along with your rose petals and thorns, herbs, and crystal. Write your intention on a piece of paper in the past or present tense (not future tense), such as “I am with the partner of my dreams” and place it in the jar. Close the lid and shake it up, visualizing your intention. Light a candle and say your intention out loud to the universe and full moon, visualizing what it would be like to attain it. Raise the energy by chanting, dancing, and moving your body. Allow the candle to burn down in the sink. When it’s done burning, take a moment to mentally close out your ritual, thanking the universe, moon, and/or any deities you work with. Take the remaining rose petals and spread them on the side of the bed where your partner would lay. Place the large piece of rose quartz there, with the jar next to it and sleep with it overnight. The next morning place as much of the remaining petals that you can into the jar. Thank the universe, then throw out the jar in a garbage can at the intersection of streets (the modern-day crossroads, where witches originally buried things), knowing your spell is complete.

Releasing Heartbreak Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: During a waning moon for the best effects.

Items required:

  • 1X white candle
  • 1X Fire-safe jar/container
  • Paper and pen

Ritual:

Start by writing a goodbye letter to the person or relationship that you are trying to release. Be sure to place your full emotions while writing it. After writing the letter, place it in the jar and burn it. Light a white candle and every day for 30 days (full moon cycle), and place a note under the candle describing 5 things that make you feel really good about yourself or in general. Then, meditate for five minutes with your hands over your heart.

Broken Heart Cleansing Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: During a waning moon for the best effects.

Items required:

  • 1X sage smudge stick (cedar works as well)
  • 1X egg (uncooked)
  • 1X 3’’ black candle

Ritual:

Light the sage and begin to spread the smoke through your space. Cut the black candle in half, placing the top portion in a candle holder. Light the candle. As it burns, take the egg and slowly move it all over your body, particularly around your heart chakra.  Say out loud: “Universe, I ask you to remove the sadness, allow me to heal, grow, and once again be open and ready to love.” As you do so, the egg will soak up the sad energy that is in your heart. After the candle burns, take the remaining wax and the egg and dispose of them both at the nearest crossroads (if you’re in the country, bury the items in a remote area); thanking the universe for this blessing before doing so. 

Candle Love Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 1X large white candle
  • Cinnamon
  • Rose petals
  • Honey
  • 1X bowl of water
  • Paper and pen

Ritual:

Start by cleansing your space then start to feel good in your body. It could be a quick workout, dancing or a nice walk. You want to get into a good mood and high vibration. Next, write out your desires or intentions for love. Take the paper and fold it toward you into a couple squares until it’s flat enough to sit under the candle. Close your eyes and visualize your intention. Sprinkle a pinch of cinnamon and dried petals on top of the candle and one or two dollops of honey in the candle, ensuring it doesn’t get on the wick. It’s okay if it gets a little messy. It’s all about intention. As you visualize your intention, speak them at the candle, and rub the outside of the candle with any rose oil. Take your bowl and fill it with water, enough to cover the bottom of the candle. Place your intentions under the bowl. Sit the candle in the water and light it, placing it somewhere it can remain undisturbed. Call on your guides, spirits, ancestors, or whomever you feel drawn to and ask them to assist your intention of attracting love into your life. Thank the candle before discarding it. Set your intentions on your altar or journal.

Love Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 1X bathtub
  • 1X cup of whole milk
  • 6X drops of vanilla extract
  • 6X drops of rose oil
  • Rose petals (to cover the surface of the water in the bathtub)
  • 4X 3’’ pink candles
  • 1X large piece of rose quartz (to place in the tub)
  • 1X bottle of Lavender Florida Water (regular will also suffice)
  • (Optional) 1X small (pink, white, or gold) drawstring bag

Ritual:

Draw a warm bath, then add in the milk, vanilla extract and rose oil. Place the rose quartz in the tub, then when the top of the water reached the level that you want, place the rose petals on top. Place a candle at each corner of the tub and light them individually. Pour a glass of your favorite wine, then get inside. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and think about the person that you would like to be with you in the bath and manifest your vision and relax. Once you are done, thank the universe in advance for this beautiful blessing. Gather the rose petals, place them in a bowl and add a few drops of rose oil. And place them on the part of the bed that your partner would lay on. Rinse off, spray some lavender Florida water all over you then the spell is complete. (Optional) Once all the rose petals dry you can place them all in the drawstring bag and leave it on your bed.

Honey Jar Love Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 1X small jar
  • Honey
  • Paper and pen

Ritual:

Write the name of your person down on the paper three times. The numerological significance behind the number 3 is where this spell gets its power. “Three” is all about self-expression and exhibiting “wholeness.” Next, write down your clear intention. This has to be extremely clear or else the power of the spell will be left wanting. Fold the paper three times so that it fits perfectly in the honey jar. Before you close the jar, take out some honey and use it in a cup of tea. As you sip your honey tea, repeat this mantra, either out loud or in your head: “As I take this tea, you’ll be this sweet to me.” Once you finish your tea, the spell has been set. The next thing to do is close the spell with finishing touches. Put the lid on your honey jar and bury it somewhere safe. It’s best if it’s a place nearby blooming flowers or herbs. Wherever there are things blooming or growing is the best thing to do.

Full Moon Love Ritual

Best time to perform the ritual: An earth full moon.

Items required:

  • A handful of rose petals
  • An “earth” full moon.

Ritual:

For this love spell, you’ll want to focus on your desire to have a partner—how much it would mean to you, how in love you would be, what support you’d feel—as opposed to your sadness of being single. That extra energy oomph is what will kick this spell in high gear. Write down a list of qualities you want your person to have. It can be as long and as detailed as you’d like! If you’re searching for stability, wait for an earth moon: Capricorn, Taurus, or Virgo. However, any full moon will do just fine, as long as your energy is in the right place. However, full moons always take on the energy of the sign they are in. Since we are using an earthly agent (rose petals) and hoping to find a stable connection, earth moons will bring about the most firepower for this spell. After you’ve written down your qualities, fold up the paper and place it near your breast—close to your heart. Go outside your house with the rose petals. Circle your house three times whilst dropping the petals bit by bit. Chant to yourself or in your head, over and over as you do this, “Come to me. I’m ready for you.”

Candle Attraction Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: A new moon.

Items needed:

  • 1X 4 inch yellow or pink candle
  • Rose oil or Jasmine oil

Ritual:

Start by carving your name into the candle. Under your name, carve a small heart with a plus sign. Then, under the heart, carve a question mark. Anoint the candle with the rose oil. Place the candle on your windowsill the night of a new moon. Before lighting the candle, take several moments to perform a short ritual to focus your intention on the type of love and partner you want to attract. Be specific with your intentions whether it be something casual or serious along with the qualities you desire in a partner. Complete the ritual with an invocation. (e.g.) “Universe, I affirm my request for love into this candle and ask you grant me that which I desire and deserve. I am fully open to receiving and am grateful for all your blessings.” Let the candle burn down completely. The following day (and for the next seven days) dab a small amount of the oil that you used on each wrist to keep the spell working.

Sachet Bag Love Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: On the Friday of a waxing moon.

Items needed:

  • 1X small (pink, white, or gold) drawstring bag
  • 6X red or pink rose petals
  • Several drops of lavender oil
  • 1X small cinnamon stick
  • 1X small piece of rose quartz

Ritual:

Place the above ingredients in a bag and close it. Find a quiet place to meditate then spend the next few moments focusing on the qualities (non-materialistic) that you want in a partner. Think about qualities and attributes that you find important. Then recite the following: “On this day of Venus, bring to me a healthy partner who will see in me, and I will see in them, the genuine love real feelings that we are each thinking of.” After you energize the bag, for the next seven days, carry it with you and sleep with it under your pillow to keep it working.

Tarot Card Love Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: Continuous Fridays until you meet someone new.

Items needed:

  • 1X Waite-Smith Rider Tarot Deck
  • 2X 3’’ pink candles
  • 1X stick of jasmine incense
  • 1X small plate
  • Rose oil

Ritual:

Start by removing the “Emperor”, “Empress”, and “6 of Cups” from the deck (for same-sex partners replace the “Emperor” with the “High Priestess” or the “Empress” with the “Magician”). Place the cards in a row with either the “Emperor” or “Empress” on the right side and the “High Priestess” or “Magician” on the left side. The “6 of Cups” should always be in the middle. Anoint the candle with rose oil, then place it on the plate, positioning it in front of the “6 of Cups” card. Light the incense (you can place it anywhere near the cards), then close your eyes, take several deep breaths, and envision all the qualities that you are seeking in a partner. Feel it with all your heart.  When you are ready, open your eyes and thank the universe for fulfilling your request. Leave everything where it is until the next morning, then discard any excess wax.

Oshun New Love Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items needed:

  • Five nickels
  • 5 sunflowers
  • Honey
  • A piece of yellow or white ribbon
  • Oshun candle

Ritual:

Close your eyes and meditate on what it is in love that will truly make you happy. Go by the nearest river or stream in your area as flowing bodies of water are extremely scared to the Goddess Oshun. When you are by the river, tie the ribbon around the flowers. Next, dab each flower with a dab of honey and taste a bit for yourself. Toss the flowers and five nickels into the water and ask for Oshun’s blessing. At home light a candle for Oshun with her favorite offerings and pray over your request for the next five days.

Oshun Love Bath Spell

Best time to perform the ritual: Anytime, but a new or full moon will enhance the energies.

Items required:

  • 5X sunflowers
  • 1X white candle
  • 1X bowl
  • 1X figurine or photo of Oshun
  • Honey
  • Cinnamon
  • Your favorite cologne/perfume

 Ritual:

Light the candle in front of the figurine or photo of Oshun. Speak your wishes aloud to Oshun so that she can hear you. Remove the sunflower petals, then add some honey and a few drops/sprays of cologne/perfume. Take a shower, place some water into the bowl with all the ingredients and pour it all over yourself from the neck down. Close your eyes then out loud ask Oshun to bring love into your life, then thank her.